Paul NoilesNov 7, 20192 minThe Power of Surrender We live in a culture that values the individual and individual achievement above all else, so it’s no wonder the interconnected concept...
Paul NoilesJul 3, 20192 minThe End of RelapseFrom my upcoming book - Nov 2019 The End of Relapse (The Mistaken Identity Model of Addiction) LAYER 2- WE ARE NOT OUR MIND "There is...
Paul NoilesMay 10, 20192 minWe see the world as we are. When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...
Paul NoilesApr 4, 20192 min“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....
Paul NoilesMar 15, 20193 minWe need compassion from two places to recover; ourselves and others.The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already constantly beating the living shit...
Paul NoilesMar 8, 20192 minThe answer to suffering!The answer to suffering is to find meaning; it's how we let go of the victimhood question --why me? To this day, it blows my mind that...
Paul NoilesFeb 24, 20191 minEvery human being is addicted!I am going to make a bold statement, “Every human being is addicted, in one way or another.” Because we have ALL at one time or another...
Paul NoilesFeb 12, 20192 minFrom what the world would call "success" to being "homeless" in 2005.Being homeless was like no other pain. I felt like the scum of the earth, so I created a delusional story to emotionally and...
Paul NoilesJan 26, 20192 minAre we our feelings; is this who we are? Had I not peeled the most important layer of the onion “I am not my feelings” I would have died because I used my substance of choice for...
Paul NoilesJan 16, 20192 minFind Your BalanceAfter a decade of daily journaling (2000- 2010) doing what is called morning pages, I discovered a common theme; “Slow the fuck down...
Paul NoilesJan 9, 20192 min How do you start you're day?I wake up, most morning at 6 am (progress not perfection) and start my day with great reverence for life. I dedicate the first 60 minutes...
Paul NoilesOct 3, 20183 minThe effectiveness of CompassionEnjoy the video below! The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already in a constant...