Paul NoilesApr 142 minThe voice of - I don't matter.A healthy family allows each person (especially the children) to bring their whole selves to the table, knowing they will be; heard,...
Paul NoilesFeb 282 minBaring our SoulTook me a long time to figure out that baring my soul to a few trusted souls would become one of the gifts that would lead me to authencity
Paul NoilesSep 15, 20212 minWhen Grief Meets SobrietyThe grief connection is easier to understand once we comprehend addiction: Addiction is about self-medicating our pain, and most of our...
Paul NoilesAug 31, 20212 minWhy does surrender make people uncomfortable?The word surrender makes many people uncomfortable. I think the real problem is that most don't understand what the word surrender really...
Paul NoilesApr 14, 20212 minPraise for Mistaken Identity:“I’ve read several books about addiction, but this one is much, much more than that! Although Paul tells his story of recovery...
Paul NoilesApr 5, 20212 minBe the Observer!Be the observer of your life, not the judge, juror and executioner. I had a few approaches to let go of my negative self-talk and the...
Paul NoilesMar 29, 20212 minWe are one decision away from a new life!We are one decision away from healing, awakening, love, success, recovery, and awesomeness. That is correct! We are always one decision...
Paul NoilesMar 23, 20212 minMy Big SecretIf we are honest with ourselves, it will become evident that every human being seeks one thing -- Inner Peace. But how does one find...
Paul NoilesSep 30, 20201 minAnchoring Change Another way to break the stronghold of the voice of ' I am not enough.'
Paul NoilesJun 4, 20201 minA simple way to program the good memoriesWhat are three good things that happened to me today? Do that before going to bed to help program the good in your life.
Paul NoilesFeb 3, 20202 minAddicted to SufferingThe hard reality is that most people would rather stay with their current suffering than change. It's like we become addicted to our...
Paul NoilesNov 18, 20192 minWe all know about addiction!I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...
Paul NoilesMay 10, 20192 minWe see the world as we are. When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...
Paul NoilesApr 18, 20192 minRESPONSIBILITYLiving WITHOUT responsibility allowed me to do whatever the hell I wanted, but there was work involved. The work was to blame everyone...
Paul NoilesApr 4, 20192 min“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....
Paul NoilesMar 15, 20193 minWe need compassion from two places to recover; ourselves and others.The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already constantly beating the living shit...
Paul NoilesMar 8, 20192 minThe answer to suffering!The answer to suffering is to find meaning; it's how we let go of the victimhood question --why me? To this day, it blows my mind that...
Paul NoilesFeb 25, 20192 minDetachment means nothing owns us.Detachment is critical to our spiritual awakening and recovery because when we attach our identity to anything or anyone, we can lose...
Paul NoilesFeb 24, 20191 minEvery human being is addicted!I am going to make a bold statement, “Every human being is addicted, in one way or another.” Because we have ALL at one time or another...