"Exploring the Impact of Love and Attachment on Relationships"
Attachment, often mistaken for love, thrives on conditions and expectations. It whispers, "I'll love you if..." or "I need you to be this w
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Paul Noiles
- Mar 18
- 2 min
Beliefs have the Power to Illuminate and Darken our Path
The humble phrase "I don't know" seems to be disappearing from our society. Instead, people rely on their beliefs as 'certainty,' which can
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Paul Noiles
- Jan 17
- 2 min
The Profound Connection Between Trauma and Our Emotions. #emotionalhealing
People who have not done some healing work around their trauma have the most challenging time recognizing their emotions, childhood trauma
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Paul Noiles
- Nov 20, 2023
- 2 min
Fear our biggest Blocker to Authentic.
The research indicates that we have more regrets about what WE DID NOT DO than what WE DID DO. What stops most of us from doing this is FEAR
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Paul Noiles
- Nov 6, 2023
- 1 min
Interview on a Podcast
Recovery, Awakening, Healing, Toxic Shame, Trauma
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Paul Noiles
- Oct 25, 2023
- 1 min
Layer 1 of Mistaken Identity: Victim
We all have Mistaken Identity - where we don't like something about ourselves and playing Victim keeps us sick without responsibility
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Paul Noiles
- Jul 14, 2023
- 2 min
The Father-son and Mother-Daughter Relationships
The father-son and mother-daughter relationships and their healing are vital to the world's health. recovery healing addiction
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Paul Noiles
- May 16, 2023
- 2 min
Addiction is a family disease!
I often saw this while facilitating the family group at a treatment center. Many looked bewildered when I explained that denial and...
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Paul Noiles
- Dec 6, 2022
- 1 min
You are a Sunflower
It Matters - All of It - What happened to you as a little person - You Matter
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Paul Noiles
- Nov 16, 2022
- 2 min
Reparenting Little You!
Tyler Perry, the famous filmmaker, actor, and advocate talks openly about being abused by his father in an interview with Chris Wallace....
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Paul Noiles
- Jul 15, 2022
- 2 min
Some Hard Lessons I had to Learn:
When I stopped numbing and started feeling, I had to reevaluate everything, especially loving myself over making others comfortable. I...
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Paul Noiles
- Apr 14, 2022
- 2 min
The voice of - I don't matter.
A healthy family allows each person (especially the children) to bring their whole selves to the table, knowing they will be; heard,...
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Paul Noiles
- Nov 9, 2021
- 3 min
Addiction Shuts Down the Heart Chakra
At its core, addiction is the shutting down of the heart chakra which usually begins in childhood from emotional loss or trauma.
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Paul Noiles
- Jul 21, 2021
- 2 min
Unhealed Childhood Trauma
I was utterly unaware that I was highjacked and triggered by a part of me that did not feel safe because of unhealed childhood trauma. I liv
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Paul Noiles
- Jul 19, 2021
- 2 min
Don't become a victim of your childhood.
"We spend our childhood wanting to grow up and spend our adulthood trying to undo our childhood." – Paul Noiles. The problem is that many...
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Paul Noiles
- Jun 7, 2021
- 3 min
No substance or behavior is addictive in and of itself.
Alcohol does not make someone an alcoholic. Cocaine does not make someone a cocaine addict. Casinos do not make someone a gambling addict.
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Paul Noiles
- Jan 28, 2021
- 2 min
False Purpose
I once believed love, life, and others' respect and admiration would be mine if I could find a great purpose. I'd heard this repeatedly...
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Paul Noiles
- Nov 18, 2019
- 2 min
We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...
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Paul Noiles
- Sep 20, 2019
- 3 min
Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)
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