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Specializing in Trauma healing



Understanding the Deep Impact of Early Abandonment on Emotional Healing
When a parent leaves in early childhood, whether through addiction, divorce, incarceration, mental health issues, or even death, the...
Paul Noiles
13 hours ago2 min read


𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐁𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬
You can't heal someone else's pain by losing yourself in it.
Real love doesn’t mean saying yes when your soul is screaming no.It doesn’t mean pretending things are okay when they’re not.It doesn’t mean sacrificing your peace to keep someone else from falling apart.
Love doesn’t mean enabling. Love means honoring the truth.
✅ Set boundaries that protect your peace.
✅ Say no to money, rides, or cover-ups that fuel the addiction.
✅ Let consequences happen—even if it brea
Paul Noiles
Jul 282 min read


𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐖𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥:
I’ve learned on my healing journey that emotions don’t disappear when we ignore them—they get stored in the body.
Paul Noiles
May 121 min read


Uncovering the Hidden Roots of Addiction: Exploring the Underlying Causes
Toxic shame is isolating. It makes us hyper-aware of our surroundings, creating false stories about ourselves. And when the discomfort becom
Paul Noiles
Mar 242 min read


The Gift of Self-Forgiveness
Self-forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts we can offer ourselves. Realizing that my inability to forgive was tied to a mistaken sense of
Paul Noiles
Feb 262 min read


The 10-letter dirty word, DISCIPLINE
The Power of Discipline! Discipline is not about perfection; it's about consistency and showing up, even when it's hard. Discipline is...
Paul Noiles
Jan 61 min read


Why Asking 'What Happened to You?' Instead of 'What is Wrong with You?' Matters in Mental Health
Until we heal the wounds of our past, we will continue to bleed. These wounds will bleed and stain our lives—through alcohol, drugs, sex,
Paul Noiles
Dec 17, 20241 min read


𝐑𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅
𝐑𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 —you’ve won battles most people never see. The pain you’ve endured, the tears you’ve cried, and the strength i
Paul Noiles
Oct 21, 20242 min read


The Cure for Jealousy
At its core, jealousy reflects our inner insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. A quiet voice tells us we are not enough, drawing attentio
Paul Noiles
Oct 9, 20242 min read
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