Paul NoilesJan 252 min readChildhood Criticism can cause trauma.Constant criticism from childhood can leave deep scars that impact us as adults.
Paul NoilesJun 8, 20212 min readLet Go When we try to control and cling, we waste our energy trying to force or manage things to conform to our will.
Paul NoilesJun 7, 20213 min readNo substance or behavior is addictive in and of itself. Alcohol does not make someone an alcoholic. Cocaine does not make someone a cocaine addict. Casinos do not make someone a gambling addict.
Paul NoilesMar 3, 20212 min readCodependency HelpA person with codependency believes their well-being depends on controlling and changing another person’s behavior.
Paul NoilesDec 18, 20192 min readDetachment (Non-Attachment) is Love.A codependent person is someone who has let another person's behaviour affect them in such a way that they are obsessed with trying to...
Paul NoilesSep 20, 20193 min readChildhood and dysfunction.We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)