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Addicted to Suffering
The hard reality is that most people would rather stay with their current suffering than change. It's like we become addicted to our...

Paul Noiles
Feb 3, 20202 min read


We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...

Paul Noiles
Nov 18, 20192 min read


Awakening Tips!
Awakening Tips

Paul Noiles
Sep 22, 20192 min read


We see the world as we are.
When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...

Paul Noiles
May 9, 20192 min read


RESPONSIBILITY
Living WITHOUT responsibility allowed me to do whatever the hell I wanted, but there was work involved. The work was to blame everyone...

Paul Noiles
Apr 17, 20192 min read


“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”
It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....

Paul Noiles
Apr 4, 20192 min read


We need compassion from two places to recover; ourselves and others.
The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already constantly beating the living shit...

Paul Noiles
Mar 15, 20193 min read


The answer to suffering!
The answer to suffering is to find meaning; it's how we let go of the victimhood question --why me? To this day, it blows my mind that...

Paul Noiles
Mar 8, 20192 min read


Detachment means nothing owns us.
Detachment is critical to our spiritual awakening and recovery because when we attach our identity to anything or anyone, we can lose...

Paul Noiles
Feb 25, 20192 min read


Every human being is addicted!
I am going to make a bold statement, “Every human being is addicted, in one way or another.” Because we have ALL at one time or another...

Paul Noiles
Feb 24, 20191 min read


From what the world would call "success" to being "homeless" in 2005.
Being homeless was like no other pain. I felt like the scum of the earth, so I created a delusional story to emotionally and...

Paul Noiles
Feb 12, 20192 min read


Are we our feelings; is this who we are?
Had I not peeled the most important layer of the onion “I am not my feelings” I would have died because I used my substance of choice for...

Paul Noiles
Jan 26, 20192 min read


Find Your Balance
After a decade of daily journaling (2000- 2010) doing what is called morning pages, I discovered a common theme; “Slow the fuck down...

Paul Noiles
Jan 16, 20192 min read


How do you start you're day?
I wake up, most morning at 6 am (progress not perfection) and start my day with great reverence for life. I dedicate the first 60 minutes...

Paul Noiles
Jan 8, 20192 min read


An anonymous true story of trauma:
The tale of Marlboro Man: Almost 20 years ago I meet twenty-eight-year-old Jim (not his real name) well in treatment for my second time....

Paul Noiles
Nov 16, 20183 min read
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