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There's a great book by Bronnie Ware called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. In it, she asks patients on their deathbeds about their...

Paul Noiles
May 16, 20223 min read
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Most anxieties stem from the unresolved emotional body.
Most people do not want to accept that their unhealed childhood experiences (trauma) created a template of suffering and pain in their...

Paul Noiles
May 5, 20222 min read
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Because I had extreme difficulty with self-compassion, it was non-existent, so I could not see my truth. For as long as I could remember,...

Paul Noiles
Apr 21, 20222 min read
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Baring our Soul
Took me a long time to figure out that baring my soul to a few trusted souls would become one of the gifts that would lead me to authencity

Paul Noiles
Feb 28, 20222 min read
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You are not the mind!
We create our prisons when we turn thoughts into an enemy and identity. Remember: what we resist will persist.

Paul Noiles
Feb 10, 20222 min read
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When Grief Meets Sobriety
The grief connection is easier to understand once we comprehend addiction: Addiction is about self-medicating our pain, and most of our...

Paul Noiles
Sep 15, 20212 min read
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Everything Happens Within Us.โ
Many people walk through the world without self-awareness because they have not done or had the opportunity to do the inner work of...

Paul Noiles
Sep 8, 20212 min read
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Unhealed Childhood Trauma
I was utterly unaware that I was highjacked and triggered by a part of me that did not feel safe because of unhealed childhood trauma. I liv

Paul Noiles
Jul 21, 20212 min read
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The Seeker
My quest was and still is to seek the truth. It saved my life. I am confident it will save anyone who truly desires it. ~Paul Noiles The...

Paul Noiles
May 5, 20212 min read
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Praise for Mistaken Identity:
โIโve read several books about addiction, but this one is much, much more than that! Although Paul tells his story of recovery...

Paul Noiles
Apr 13, 20212 min read
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Be the Observer!
Be the observer of your life, not the judge, juror and executioner. I had a few approaches to let go of my negative self-talk and the...

Paul Noiles
Apr 5, 20212 min read
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My Big Secret
If we are honest with ourselves, it will become evident that every human being seeks one thing -- Inner Peace. But how does one find...

Paul Noiles
Mar 23, 20212 min read
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Mistaken Identity
Like an onion, I painful peeled layers of my Mistaken Identity.

Paul Noiles
Oct 7, 20202 min read
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We are always healing something.
The grief and regret that I thought were healed, from 20 years of addiction reappeared.

Paul Noiles
Sep 27, 20202 min read
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Addicted to Suffering
The hard reality is that most people would rather stay with their current suffering than change. It's like we become addicted to our...

Paul Noiles
Feb 3, 20202 min read
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The difference between Pain and Suffering
The difference between pain and suffering. An important read for anyone who suffering and those with an addiction.

Paul Noiles
Jan 3, 20203 min read
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We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...

Paul Noiles
Nov 18, 20192 min read
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All relationships are mirrors.
All relationships are mirrors. โข When we judge others - we judge ourselves. โข How we treat others is really how we treat ourselves. โข...

Paul Noiles
Nov 15, 20191 min read
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The Power of Surrender
We live in a culture that values the individual and individual achievement above all else, so itโs no wonder the interconnected concept...

Paul Noiles
Nov 7, 20192 min read
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Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)

Paul Noiles
Sep 20, 20193 min read
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