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We are one decision away from different Life.
With great joy and gratitude, I share my video. Have a peace-filled weekend. #addiction #recovery #awakening #makingdecisions #RealChange...

Paul Noiles
May 12, 20231 min read
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Self-Care
Beginning in childhood, all I saw were my faults and imperfections, not my gifts. I believed my unique personality was flawed. Being a...

Paul Noiles
Feb 27, 20232 min read
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Emotional Triggers
Emotional triggers and holes are anything someone or something says or does that triggers an emotional response (over the top) to the...

Paul Noiles
Jan 19, 20232 min read
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Paul Noiles
Jan 12, 20230 min read
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You are a Sunflower
It Matters - All of It - What happened to you as a little person - You Matter

Paul Noiles
Dec 6, 20221 min read
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Reparenting Little You!
Tyler Perry, the famous filmmaker, actor, and advocate talks openly about being abused by his father in an interview with Chris Wallace....

Paul Noiles
Nov 16, 20222 min read
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Trauma is what happens within You
โTrauma is not what happens to you; it's what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you." ~ GABOR MATE Example: We were...

Paul Noiles
Nov 4, 20222 min read
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๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ด๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ.
Forgiving ourselves does not mean that we condone or minimize behaviors where we may have harmed others. Itโs about understanding and accept

Paul Noiles
Oct 17, 20222 min read
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It's all about TRUST
Who would have thought that TRUST would be the most important lesson on my journey of awakening and recovery? Why? Because without trust,...

Paul Noiles
Aug 26, 20223 min read
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Some Hard Lessons I had to Learn:
When I stopped numbing and started feeling, I had to reevaluate everything, especially loving myself over making others comfortable. I...

Paul Noiles
Jul 15, 20222 min read
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20 Gold Nuggets of Awakening:
Awakening is a painful and challenging process. Here are 20 gold nuggets that I discovered on my journey: 1) If nothing changes, nothing...

Paul Noiles
Jul 7, 20222 min read
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness.
Here is how I began to free myself from the bondage of self-condemnation and began the journey of self-forgiveness: ๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ข๐ป๐ฒ: I...

Paul Noiles
Jun 22, 20222 min read
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๐โ ๐๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐ก๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐บโ
There's a great book by Bronnie Ware called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. In it, she asks patients on their deathbeds about their...

Paul Noiles
May 16, 20223 min read
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Most anxieties stem from the unresolved emotional body.
Most people do not want to accept that their unhealed childhood experiences (trauma) created a template of suffering and pain in their...

Paul Noiles
May 5, 20222 min read
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You are not the mind!
We create our prisons when we turn thoughts into an enemy and identity. Remember: what we resist will persist.

Paul Noiles
Feb 10, 20222 min read
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We canโt change anyone, period!
Thinking we can change someoneโs behavior by how much we love them is a fantasy story we tell ourselves. Itโs not based on reality.

Paul Noiles
Nov 3, 20212 min read
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Adult Trauma
We hear much about childhood trauma but little about the trauma that happens in adulthood. It has a lot to do with our perception of what...

Paul Noiles
Aug 9, 20212 min read
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Unhealed Childhood Trauma
I was utterly unaware that I was highjacked and triggered by a part of me that did not feel safe because of unhealed childhood trauma. I liv

Paul Noiles
Jul 21, 20212 min read
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Don't become a victim of your childhood.
"We spend our childhood wanting to grow up and spend our adulthood trying to undo our childhood." โ Paul Noiles. The problem is that many...

Paul Noiles
Jul 19, 20212 min read
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Three Powerful Teachings I Learned From Buddha:
Three Powerful Teachings I Learned From Buddha:

Paul Noiles
Jun 24, 20212 min read
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