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Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)

Paul Noiles
Sep 20, 20193 min read


Silence is the foundation.
There can be no knowing who we are without silence. There can be no authentic life without silence. There can be no awakening or lasting...

Paul Noiles
Jul 19, 20191 min read


At some point, we have to trust thyself!
At some point, we have to decide not to care what others think of our life or ourselves! We must be done, entirely with NOT BEING TRUE TO...

Paul Noiles
May 16, 20192 min read


We see the world as we are.
When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...

Paul Noiles
May 9, 20192 min read


RESPONSIBILITY
Living WITHOUT responsibility allowed me to do whatever the hell I wanted, but there was work involved. The work was to blame everyone...

Paul Noiles
Apr 17, 20192 min read


“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”
It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....

Paul Noiles
Apr 4, 20192 min read


Detachment means nothing owns us.
Detachment is critical to our spiritual awakening and recovery because when we attach our identity to anything or anyone, we can lose...

Paul Noiles
Feb 25, 20192 min read


From what the world would call "success" to being "homeless" in 2005.
Being homeless was like no other pain. I felt like the scum of the earth, so I created a delusional story to emotionally and...

Paul Noiles
Feb 12, 20192 min read


Are we our feelings; is this who we are?
Had I not peeled the most important layer of the onion “I am not my feelings” I would have died because I used my substance of choice for...

Paul Noiles
Jan 26, 20192 min read


Find Your Balance
After a decade of daily journaling (2000- 2010) doing what is called morning pages, I discovered a common theme; “Slow the fuck down...

Paul Noiles
Jan 16, 20192 min read


How do you start you're day?
I wake up, most morning at 6 am (progress not perfection) and start my day with great reverence for life. I dedicate the first 60 minutes...

Paul Noiles
Jan 8, 20192 min read
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