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The voice of - I don't matter.
A healthy family allows each person (especially the children) to bring their whole selves to the table, knowing they will be; heard,...

Paul Noiles
Apr 14, 20222 min read


We can’t change anyone, period!
Thinking we can change someone’s behavior by how much we love them is a fantasy story we tell ourselves. It’s not based on reality.

Paul Noiles
Nov 3, 20212 min read


When Grief Meets Sobriety
The grief connection is easier to understand once we comprehend addiction: Addiction is about self-medicating our pain, and most of our...

Paul Noiles
Sep 15, 20212 min read


Everything Happens Within Us.”
Many people walk through the world without self-awareness because they have not done or had the opportunity to do the inner work of...

Paul Noiles
Sep 8, 20212 min read


The Seeker
My quest was and still is to seek the truth. It saved my life. I am confident it will save anyone who truly desires it. ~Paul Noiles The...

Paul Noiles
May 5, 20212 min read


False Purpose
I once believed love, life, and others' respect and admiration would be mine if I could find a great purpose. I'd heard this repeatedly...

Paul Noiles
Jan 28, 20212 min read


Are you addicted to suffering?
Are you addicted to suffering?

Paul Noiles
Apr 5, 20202 min read


Acceptance
Acceptance is the answer to most our problems.

Paul Noiles
Mar 31, 20202 min read


Addicted to Suffering
The hard reality is that most people would rather stay with their current suffering than change. It's like we become addicted to our...

Paul Noiles
Feb 3, 20202 min read


Addiction and the Heart.
We are born with this incredible creative vulnerability, every one of us, it’s one of our greatest gifts. However, if we are mentally or...

Paul Noiles
Jan 24, 20202 min read


The difference between Pain and Suffering
The difference between pain and suffering. An important read for anyone who suffering and those with an addiction.

Paul Noiles
Jan 3, 20203 min read


Waiting for motivation is bullshit!
I used to believe I had to be motivated to change, but today I understand that waiting for motivation was a self-defeating story and very...

Paul Noiles
Dec 19, 20192 min read
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