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My Big Secret
If we are honest with ourselves, it will become evident that every human being seeks one thing -- Inner Peace. But how does one find...

Paul Noiles
Mar 23, 20212 min read


Codependency Help
A person with codependency believes their well-being depends on controlling and changing another person’s behavior.

Paul Noiles
Mar 3, 20212 min read


Attachment and Authenticity:
The most life-changing and healing information for recovery and awakening. Think about it, the minute we come out of the womb; we need...

Paul Noiles
Nov 16, 20202 min read


Mistaken Identity
Like an onion, I painful peeled layers of my Mistaken Identity.

Paul Noiles
Oct 7, 20202 min read


Anchoring Change
Another way to break the stronghold of the voice of ' I am not enough.'

Paul Noiles
Sep 30, 20201 min read


We are always healing something.
The grief and regret that I thought were healed, from 20 years of addiction reappeared.

Paul Noiles
Sep 27, 20202 min read


The Obstacle is the Path
The Obstacle is the Path

Paul Noiles
Jul 14, 20202 min read


Every misfortune or illness has a lesson.
Every misfortune or illness has a lesson.

Paul Noiles
May 27, 20202 min read


Are you addicted to suffering?
Are you addicted to suffering?

Paul Noiles
Apr 5, 20202 min read


Acceptance
Acceptance is the answer to most our problems.

Paul Noiles
Mar 31, 20202 min read


Stop fighting with yourself!
For 40 years, there was only one obstacle standing in my way of freedom and that obstacle was ME! HOWEVER --- I was utterly unaware the...

Paul Noiles
Jan 23, 20202 min read


We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...

Paul Noiles
Nov 18, 20192 min read


The Power of Surrender
We live in a culture that values the individual and individual achievement above all else, so it’s no wonder the interconnected concept...

Paul Noiles
Nov 7, 20192 min read


Pain is not bad!
We have been brought up to believe that pain is bad, and pleasure is good, but the two are inseparable like night and day, birth and...

Paul Noiles
Oct 31, 20192 min read


The End of Relapse
From my upcoming book - Nov 2019 The End of Relapse (The Mistaken Identity Model of Addiction) LAYER 2- WE ARE NOT OUR MIND "There is...

Paul Noiles
Jul 3, 20192 min read


"The cure for pain is in the pain."
Any attempts to escape from psychological pain will only create more pain. We must stop running from it as Rumi says, "The cure for pain...

Paul Noiles
Jun 19, 20193 min read


We see the world as we are.
When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...

Paul Noiles
May 9, 20192 min read


RESPONSIBILITY
Living WITHOUT responsibility allowed me to do whatever the hell I wanted, but there was work involved. The work was to blame everyone...

Paul Noiles
Apr 17, 20192 min read


“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”
It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....

Paul Noiles
Apr 4, 20192 min read


We need compassion from two places to recover; ourselves and others.
The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already constantly beating the living shit...

Paul Noiles
Mar 15, 20193 min read
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