Paul NoilesNov 3, 20212 minWe can’t change anyone, period! Thinking we can change someone’s behavior by how much we love them is a fantasy story we tell ourselves. It’s not based on reality.
Paul NoilesAug 9, 20212 minAdult TraumaWe hear much about childhood trauma but little about the trauma that happens in adulthood. It has a lot to do with our perception of what...
Paul NoilesJul 19, 20212 minDon't become a victim of your childhood."We spend our childhood wanting to grow up and spend our adulthood trying to undo our childhood." – Paul Noiles. The problem is that many...
Paul NoilesMar 3, 20212 minCodependency HelpA person with codependency believes their well-being depends on controlling and changing another person’s behavior.
Paul NoilesOct 7, 20202 minMistaken Identity Like an onion, I painful peeled layers of my Mistaken Identity.
Paul NoilesJan 26, 20202 minJust Let GoWhen we try to control and cling, we waste our energy trying to force or manage things to conform to our will. But when we let go, we...
Paul NoilesDec 19, 20192 minDetachment (Non-Attachment) is Love.A codependent person is someone who has let another person's behaviour affect them in such a way that they are obsessed with trying to...